5 Habits of Mentally Tough Hockey Players

Because grit matters just as much as goals.

Speed. Skill. Strength. These get most of the spotlight—but the real difference-makers? They're the ones who show up with mental toughness.

Mentally tough players bounce back faster, play smarter, and rise when the pressure’s highest. The good news? Mental toughness isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build—habit by habit, rep by rep.

Here are five habits that separate good players from great ones.

1. They Control the Controllables

Mentally tough players don’t waste energy on bad calls, tough ice, or a coach’s mood. Instead, they focus on what they can control: their attitude, effort, preparation, and response.

They understand that while they can't change the game script, they can always change how they show up in it.

2. They Talk to Themselves

When things get tough, most players hear the voice that says "I can’t." Mentally tough players talk back.

They replace self-doubt with direction:
“I’ve trained for this.”
“One shift at a time.”
“Get back to the basics.”

Their internal voice isn’t always loud—but it’s deliberate. And that makes all the difference when the game’s on the line.

3. They Love the Hard Stuff

Most people avoid discomfort. Mentally tough hockey players lean into it.

Early practice? Let’s go.
Off-ice conditioning? Bring it.
Tough opponent? Game on.

They know that growth doesn’t come from staying comfortable. It comes from doing the hard things—especially when no one’s watching.

4. They Reset Quickly

Everyone makes mistakes. Missed passes, bad penalties, goals against. The difference? Mentally tough players hit the reset button—fast.

They shake off setbacks with a deep breath, a quick refocus, and a shift in mindset. No drama. No spiral. Just the next play. The next chance. The next opportunity to lead by example.

5. They Practice Presence

Mentally tough players train their focus like they train their shot. They’re not thinking about the third period during the first. They’re locked in—right now.

This focus helps them anticipate plays, manage their energy, and stay composed when everyone else is unraveling. They know that the present moment is the only one they can win.

Final Thought: Toughness Is a Skill

Mental toughness doesn’t show up overnight—and it’s not just for pros. It’s for any player who wants to show up with more confidence, consistency, and leadership.

So start with one habit. Practice it. Build it into your routine. Because just like skating, shooting, or stickhandling—toughness can be trained.

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